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Tuesday, December 31, 2013

I Resolve...



I Resolve

Is anyone really sad to see the backside of 2013?  I’m not. I think the year held a record of lows for me personally…caring for my mother through 3 surgeries, and then succumbing to the surgeon’s knife myself. It’s been a tough year.  I know very few authors who can push ahead and write through pain and fear and depression. OK, some can, I can’t, so my 2013 word count sucked. Fewer words written mean fewer releases, which means a dip in my income. 

Ouch. 

Historically, my New Year’s resolutions are pretty wimpy, designed to prevent failure. My resolution for 2012 was “Do Better.” LOL! I think I was sitting in the hospital with Mom for 2013, so if I made a resolution, I’ve forgotten what it was.

This year, I decided to make a resolution that’s a little more defined. One that will have a concrete effect on my day-to-day life. This year I resolve to be better organized in my professional life. Once I made that resolution, I looked around the house and decided to start with my environment…specifically, my bedroom.

In the closet.(Insert sounds of doom…)

 I’m a bit of a hoarder as far as clothing is concerned. What we wear is so personal and imbued with our experiences, our hopes and our pain. I rarely let anything go. Which leads to a very full closet. To top it off, Levi sleeps in one end of the closet so that half can’t hold longer garments like dresses.
Enthused by my decision (and worried about shopping for an upcoming cruise) I jumped the annual gun yesterday and dove in. 

Oh my heck…the dust! LOL! There was stuff in there I haven’t seen in years! Maybe decades! Old business wear from when I had an office job, and dog show clothes I no longer need. The pants I wore to my aunt’s funeral seven years ago. A pair of ethnic Taiwanese shirts a friend gave me. They never did fit. The red and black sushi chef jacket Kazu gave me all those years ago…

I had a “keep” pile and a “toss” pile, and a pile of “I’m not sure.” By the end of the day, I’d filled three big garbage bags and still have a  stack of “I’m not sure.” Those will probably be tossed. The unexpected benefit? I’ve lost weight and found a bunch of smaller sizes. The Taiwanese shirts finally fit. To my chagrin, my favorite velvet tops don’t. Those went into a new pile for potential alterations. 

Next will be the office. And then the hard drive...

I chose this resolution because organization equates time. I can spend an hour searching for a letter or receipt or go straight to the file and pull it out. I can find a specific book on the shelf rather than digging it from a pile. And when my life is organized, my brain functions a little better. 

I Resolve…

I’m a big believer in setting goals. I learned about short term and long term goals as a kid attending the Mormon Church. Later, I attended a Steven Covey training to learn to use my Day Planner, and that reinforced what I already knew. But I rarely use that knowledge in my daily life. 

I am a hot mess. LOL!

And what is a resolution anyway?  Well, it’s basically a statement of determination and purpose. I will lose weight in 2014. I will organize my life. I will…probably forget all about this by February.
But take a slightly different look at your resolution. It’s really a baby goal. It’s intent. Yet neither a goal nor a resolution will get off the ground without a plan.

In 2014, I will write a novel.
In 2014, I will to paint my house.
In 2014, I will stop smoking.

Nice resolutions. They’re defined, have a time frame, and frankly, they are achievable, if not easy. So how are you going to carry out your resolution? Is it a viable, realistic goal? One that you can achieve? Do you understand why you're choosing that resolution and how to make it happen?

Write that resolution down. Once you write down a resolution, it becomes a goal. And when you have a goal, you have the beginnings of a plan…a roadmap to where you want to be. Break it down into smaller components. Make mini-goals.

In 2014, I want to organize my life better.
Why? So I can clear my mind,, optimize my time and function better as a writer.
How? I will start in my bedroom, which is my most personal space.
 I will sort through my closet, identifying those items I will keep, donate, throw away or sell.
I will then return my clothing to my closet and sort it, making sure it is clean and in good repair.

You can follow this sort of plan with any goal, whether it’s writing a book, losing weight or learning to paint. You might resolve to travel or have an adventure. Make a wish list. If you want to visit the Great Wall of China, write it down and find out what it’ll take to make it happen. Then go step-by-step. 

Don’t get discouraged by failure. Things happen. Pounds come back and plans go awry. Writers get blocked and flights get cancelled. Be determined. Be flexible. Don’t set an impossible goal and set yourself up for failure.

In our lives, we always have room for improvement. Unfortunately, we can also be our own worst enemy. So before you casually declare those resolutions at midnight, think about what you want to do and why you’re doing it. Then educate yourself and make a plan.

Out with the old and in with the new.

Happy New Year! May 2014 be brilliant! 

Belinda

Monday, December 23, 2013

Get What You Really Wanted!

So Christmas is almost here, and if you're family is like mine, they buy you a motley collection of clothing that doesn't quite fit, odd slippers and candy. Which is nice, but...yeah. The hips.

So this year, get what you really wanted! Pick up a paperback copy of An Uncommon Whore, 1 & 2! It's got new cover art and original black and white plates by PL Nunn!

http://www.lulu.com/shop/belinda-mcbride/an-uncommon-whore-1-2-illustrated-edition/paperback/product-21232586.html
 
You can also pick up a print copy of The Bacchi
 
http://www.lulu.com/shop/belinda-mcbride/the-bacchi/paperback/product-21231407.html

And if you're in the mood for shifters, pick up a copy of Arcada: Silver/Steel:

http://www.amazon.com/Silver-Steel-Belinda-McBride/dp/1623002362/ref=sr_1_1_bnp_1_pap?ie=UTF8&qid=1387869466&sr=8-1&keywords=silver%2Fsteel+by+belinda+mcbride

ANDDD....
If you're interested, I have a limited number of copies that I'm willing to sell at a reduced price. (this applies to An Uncommon Whore and The Bacchi only) So if you want a signed copy, drop me a line! 

Have a Very Merry Christmas, Happy Holidays and a Wonderful New Year!

Happy Tails!

Belinda

Saturday, November 30, 2013

An Interview with ZAM! (Plus a contest!)





Howdy there, Zam! So after all these years, I’m finally getting you on my blog and at my mercy! So how ‘bout you tell everyone a little about yourself?

Oh, wow. There’s not  a lot to tell. I’m from sunny Southern California. Wife and mother of four kids, three boys and a girl. My youngest are twins. I started writing because they dared me to!

Now it’s no secret how much I love all your books, but I’m especially enamored with Drawn Together. Would you tell us a little about how you got the idea for the story and how you developed Amane and Rory?

Actually, Drawn Together has to do with the kids too! I took them to Anime Expo when they had it in Long Beach, was that 2007? I saw this beautiful young man carrying a monstrous arrangement of white flowers, roses and stargazer lilies. The line was super long, it took forever to get in, and the kids and I started speculating about that young man while we waited. I think I had that entire book plotted by the time I got to the front of the line!

That's such a cool story! I knew it had to do with the Anime Expo...didn't realize you were there with your kids! 

Let’s talk method. When you write, how do you approach the story? Plot first or characters? Do you outline or do you “pants” the story?

I used to approach every story rather whimsically. AS though my books were great ships and I was at the helm, I got up in the morning and said -- like a certain Pirate of the Caribbean -- “Bring me that horizon”.

As you know, the craft of writing isn’t some one night stand. It’s a long term love affair. You never stop learning. You never stop growing. Now that I write for a living I know deadlines are looming. I have to be more proactive. I plot out major story points now, but I’m never afraid to change the story if my characters demand it.

You live in southern California and I notice your writer’s voice really captures the environment and culture. Is this a deliberate strategy? How much of your life influences your writing?

This isn’t a deliberate strategy as much as it’s simply how I talk. I really have a valley girl thing going sometimes, it was far worse when I was younger. I’m likely to Dude you, I often say like, you know. Tristan from Crossing Borders talks the most like me of any of my characters.

What’s your favorite TV show? Movie? Song? Book? Celebrity? Food?

My favorite TV show is currently Breaking Bad. That show is epic on some Shakespearean level. I never watched it when it was aired, but started after it was all on netflix. I have to ration myself, because it’s so hard to watch someone make so many awful choices. But the writing is first rate, the acting beyond exceptional. It’s amazing. Movie? Strictly Ballroom (but that’s just today. Tomorrow I might think of something else. Local Hero, maybe. They make to many superhero flicks these days, I miss great dramas. Song, Live Like You’re Dying. Book, The Great Gatsby. Celebrity? I have a major crush on Daniel Craig. It’s the eyes. (I totally ship him with the new Q.) Food. Belinda! you must know!!! I like real Barbecue. 

Ah! Local Hero! I loved that movie and Bill Forsyth is my favorite director of all time!  If you haven't seen Gregory's Girl...its a must!

Is there a genre you’d like to write, but are afraid of “going there?”

I’ve always wanted to write mystery. My agent says it’s a tough sell, and I am not very mysterious, but I’ve always wanted to write a cozy like Agatha Christie’s.

Do you have any guilty secrets?

 Sometimes I eat peanut butter all by itself, but I never stick the spoon back in. On totally stressful days, you might find more than one dirty spoon in the sink...

How’d it feel to be a pioneer in the M/M romance genre by signing a contract with Penguin/Intermix? Any more cowboys on the horizon?

I can’t tell you how scary that was. I have a TON of friends who write m/m, yourself included, who would have been perfectly excellent choice for that honor. Right place, right time. It was anxious, because of course I wanted to write the best book, but you know. You write what you can and you hope people like it.

And funny you should mention that! I got word they’re interested! Hopefully I’ll be bringing everyone some more cowboys in 2014!

Yee Haw! You know how much I love your cowboys!!!

Now it seems to me that a series about a cleaning service is just…unusual. But having read Grime and Punishment, I was blown away. How’d you come up with such a cool concept for a series?

There was an awesome speaker at one of the RWA meetings who shared that her Regency was a mixup of Pride and Prejudice meets The Bachelorette, and I thought. Wow. Dirty Jobs meets Gay Romance. By the end of the meeting, I had the concept and characters written on a yellow legal pad, and I remember telling Tara Lain about it on the way out to the car. I was just breathless with excitement. I know it’s kind of a grim job, but people have to do grim jobs all the time. Not every romantic hero has to be in Seal Team Six or a rock band. (Even though two of my favorite reads recently featured SEALS and Rock stars.)

Tell us a little about the new book/s

Here’s a blurb for you:

Eddie and Andrew have dynamite chemistry. But Eddie’s profoundly dyslexic, and Andrew lives to read. Andrew’s pathologically disorganized, and Eddie likes things neat and clutter free.
Andrew’s ashamed of his hoarder father, and Eddie’s embarrassed by his lack of education – secrets that could pull them apart even as a friend’s tragedy brings them together.

When Andrew’s father devolves and nearly dies because of his compulsion, Eddie and Andrew must learn compassion begins with loving one’s self in - Grime Doesn’t Pay.

You can find out more about The Brothers Grime 2 -- Eddie: Grime Doesn’t Pay HERE

What can we expect from you next? And what are you working on now?

 I have Lost and Found, a holiday novella available for pre-order at Riptide Publishing HERE, and another story of the J-Bar cowboys, My Heartache Cowboy coming in January, which can be preordered HERE.

Thanks so much Belinda, I enjoy spending time with you! I look forward to the next time we get to see each other, and I hope in the mean time you stay well and write like the wind!

Thank you for visiting my blog! It was truly a pleasure!


Author’s Bio:
Z. A. Maxfield started writing in 2007 on a dare from her children and never looked back.  Pathologically disorganized, and perennially optimistic, she writes as much as she can, reads as much as she dares, and enjoys her time with family and friends. Three things reverberate throughout all her stories: Unconditional love, redemption, and the belief that miracles happen when we least expect them.

If anyone asks her how a wife and mother of four can find time for a writing career, she’ll answer, “It’s amazing what you can accomplish if you give up housework.”

Author Links:
Website/Blog: http://zamaxfield.com/

 



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